Helpful Links & Reading List
Trust & Estate Disputes
- Estate Planning for Blended Families (2012)
By Barnes, Richard E. - Getting it Together
By - Nolo Press Guide – Plan Your estate
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Collaborative Divorce
General Information
- Avoiding Litigation (2006)
By Abney, Sherry R. - Collaborative Divorce Handbook: Helping Families Without Going to Court (2009)
Book by Forrest S. Mosten - A Clear and Easy Guide to Collaborative Divorce (2018)
Book by Jeremy S. Gaies - The Collaborative Divorce Advantage: Divorce Consciously to Protect Your Children & Avoid Financial and Emotional Bankruptcy (2017)
Book by John Hoelle, Kevin Worthley, and Peter Fabish - Navigating Emotional Currents in Collaborative Divorce: A Guide to Enlightened Team Practice (2011)
Book by Kate Scharff and Lisa Herrick - Your Personal Guide to a Successful Collaborative Divorce (2012)
By August, J. Max and Diane C. - Collaborative Practice: Deepening the Dialogue ( CLE Society, 2004)
By Cameron, Nancy - Challenging Conflict: Mediation through Understanding (2009)
By Friedman, Gary and Jack Himmelstein - The Client’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce: Your Quick and Practical Guide to the Benefits and Procedures of Collaborative Divorce (2015)
By Nadell, Joanne S. - Roadmap to a Successful Collaborative Divorce (2012)
By Nadell, Joanne S. - The Collaborative Way to Divorce : The Revolutionary Method that Results in Less Stress, Lower Costs, and Happier Kids–Without Going to Court (Hudson Street Press, 2006)
By Ousky, Ron and Webb, Stuart - Collaborative Family Law: Another Way to Resolve Family Disputes (Thompson Carswell, 2003)
By Shields, Richard W., Ryan, Judith P. and Smith, Victoria L. - Divorce Without Court: A Guide to Mediation and Collaborative Divorce (2012)
By Stoner, Katherine - Nolo Divorce Without Court: A Guide to Mediation and Collaborative Divorce
By Stoner, Katherine - Collaborative Divorce: The Revolutionary New Way to Restructure Your Family, Resolve Legal Issues, and Move On With Your Life (2007)
By Tesler, Pauline and Thompson, Peggy - Collaborative Divorce: A New Paradigm (2009)
By Tesler, Pauline H. and Peggy Thompson - Collaborative Law: Achieving Effective Resolution in Divorce Without Litigation (2017)
By Tesler, Pauline H., JD
Divorce and Children
- Video: SPLIT – A Film For Kids of Divorce (and their Parents)
By Ellen Bruno - We’re Still Family: What Grown Children Have To Say About Their Parents’ Divorce (2005)
By Ahrons, Constance. - Collateral Damage: Guiding and Protecting Your Child Through the Minefield of Divorce (2017)
By Chirban, Dr. John T. - Maggie in the Middle (Infinity Publishing, 2006)
By Cook, Nancy Douglas - Don’t Alienate the Kids (HCI Press, 2010)
By Eddy, Bill, - New Ways for Families: Parent Workbook (HCI Press, 2009)
By Eddy, Bill - Divorce the Collaborative Way: Is It The Way For You? (2009)
By Eitzen, Melinda, and Scott Clarke - Divorce: A Problem to be Solved, Not a Battle to be Fought (Brookwood Publishing, 1997)
By Fagerstrom, Karen, Ph.D.; Thompson, Peggy, Ph.D, and Nurse, A. Rodney, Ph.D. - In the Name of the Child: A Developmental Approach to Understanding and Helping Children of Conflicted and Violent Divorce, Second Edition (Springer Publishing 2009)
By Johnston, Janet; Roseby, Vivienne; Kuehnle, Kathryn - Talking To Children About Divorce: A Parent’s Guide to Helathy Communication At Each Stage of Divorce (2016)
By McBridge, Jean, MS LMFT. - Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers (Ballantine 2006)
By Neufeld, Gordon & Mate, Dr. Gabor
Divorce and Communication
- BIFF: Quick Responses to High-Conflict People, Their Personal Attacks, Hostile Email and Social Media Meltdowns Paperback (2014)
By Eddy, Bill - Taking the War Out of Our Words (3rd Edition) (Wyatt Mackenzie Publishing, 2007)
By Ellison, Sharon Strand - Beyond Reason: Using Emotions as You Negotiate (Penguin Books, 2006)
By Fisher, Roger and Shapiro, Daniel - Difficult Conversations: How To Discuss What Matters Most. (Penguin Books, 2010)
By Stone, Douglas; Patton, Bruce; Heen, Sheila; and Fisher, Roger - The Argument Culture: Stopping America’s War of Words (Ballantine, 1999)
By Tannen, Deborah
Divorce and Financial Issues
- Nolo’s Essential Guide to Child Custody and Support (2015)
By Doskow, Emily - A New Way To Win: How to Resolve Your Child Custody Dispute Without Giving Up, Giving In, or Going Broke (2010)
By Eddy. Bill, and Desjardins, Tobias - DIVORCE: Think Financially, Not Emotionally® – Jeffrey Landers
By Landers, Jeffrey - Beyond Winning: Negotiating to Create Value in Deals and Disputes (Cambridge, MA: The Belknap Press of Harvard University Press, 2000)
By Mnookin, Robert., Peppet, S.C., and Tulumello, A.S. - The House Matters in Divorce: Untangling the Legal, Financial & Emotional Ties Before You Sign On the Dotted Line (2016)
By Starks, Laurel
Divorce and LGBT Couples
- Same Sex Marriage 101: A Comprehensive Guide to Your Rights, The Law, and Your Benefits (2016)
By Hamilton, Jessica - Making It Legal: A Guide to Same-Sex Marriage, Domestic Partnerships, and Civil Unions. (2016)
By Hertz, Frederick, and Emily Doskow - License To Wed: What Legal Marriage Means to Same Sex Couples (2013)
By Richman, Kimberly D - The Therapist’s Notebook for Lesbian , Gay and Bisexual Clients: Homework, Handouts and Activities for Use In Psychotherapy
By Whitman, Joy S., Cyndy J. Boyd, editors
Divorce and Mental Health / Emotions
- The Good Divorce (1998)
By Ahrons, Constance - Predictably Irrational: The Hidden Forces That Shape Our Decisions (Harper Collins, 2008)
By Ariely, Dan - When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times: 20th Anniversary Edition (2016)
By Chödron, Pema - High Conflict People in Legal Disputes (2005)
By Eddy, Bill - It’s All Your Fault: 12 Tips For Managing People Who Blame Others for Evryone (2012)
By Eddy, Bill - Managing High Conflict People in Court (HCI Press, 2008)
By Eddy, Bill - Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder (New Harbinger Publications, 2011)
By Eddy, Bill, and Kieger, Randi - Second-Hand Shock: Surviving & Overcoming Vicarious Trauma (2012)
By Izzo, Ellie and Miller, Vicki Carpel - Wherever You Go, There You Are: Mindfulness Meditation in Everyday Life (2005)
By Kabat-Zinn, Jon - Full Catastrophe Living (Revised Edition): Using the Wisdom of Your Body and Mind to Face Stress, Pain, and Illness (2013)
By Kabat-Zinn, Jon, and Thich Nhat Hanh - Mindfulness for Beginners: Reclaiming the Present Moment―and Your Life (Paperback 2016)
By Kabat-Zinn, Jon - A General Theory of Love (Vintage 2001)
By Lewis, Thomas B., Fari Amini and Richard Lannon - Forgive for Good: A Prescription for Health and Happiness (Harper One 2003)
By Luskin, Fred - In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction (North Atlantic Books 2010)
By Mate, Dr. Gabor. - When the Body Says No: Understanding the Stress-Disease Connection (Wiley 2008)
By Mate, Dr. Gabor - The Developing Mind: How Relationships And The Brain Interact To Shape Who We Are, Second Edition (New York: Guilford Press 2015)
By Siegal, Dr. Daniel J.
Divorce and Parenting
- The Co-Parents’ Handbook: Raising Well-Adjusted, Resilient and Resourceful Kids in a Two-Home Family (2014)
By Bonnell, Karen, and Little, Kristen - The Conscious Parent’s Guide to Coparenting, A Mindful Approach to Creating a Collaborative, Positive Parenting Plan (2016)
By Flowers, Jenna - The Co-parenting Survival Guide: Letting Go of Conflict After a Difficult Divorce (New Harbinger Publications 2001)
By Elizabeth Zimmerman and Jeffrey Thayer
Mediation
- Narrative Mediation: A New Approach to Conflict Resolution (Jossey-Bass, 2000)
By Winslade, John and Monk, Gerald - Practicing Narrative Mediation: Loosening the Grip of Conflict (Jossey-Bass, 2008)
By Winslade, John and Monk, Gerald
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